How to stop being afraid to be yourself
Overcome residual genetic fear of your own uniqueness
Dear ones, Krayon welcomes you! We met again in the energies of our common Divine home, where each of you can remember who he is: a luminous angel, unique in his greatness and in his beauty, the Divine Spirit. You who have undertaken a journey on Earth often forget about your greatness and your beauty, and we remind you of this again and again.
Dear Ones, the time has come when you must live in full awareness of who you are. Dear ones, the time has come when you simply will not be able to live happily and prosperously if you do not realize on Earth the fullness of your Divine greatness and your Divine beauty.
I know that many of you are scared by these words and for good reason, but you should not blame yourself for this. For thousands of years you have been raised to fear your own uniqueness.
They tried to force you into a certain framework, from which you did not dare to stand out. This way it was more convenient for those in power at all times to keep you in obedience. That is why anyone who dared to stand out was dealt with very quickly.
Dear ones, the power of those who for centuries and millennia pushed you into limits has ended. No matter how furious they are, no matter how they try to intimidate you with threats of violence, they will no longer succeed. Their time has passed. Their threats are nothing more than the agony of the previous world order, where people were divided into rulers and subordinates, where some could pacify others from a position of strength. This doesn't work anymore, dears!
The only strong power left on Earth is the power of the Spirit, the power of Divine laws. No one and nothing can cross these laws.
Therefore, the power is on your side, dear ones, on the side of those who live according to the laws of the Spirit. And the so-called “powers of this world” (who are no longer as strong as before) will not be able to do anything to you. They simply don't have the capacity to do this. Former opportunities have been knocked out of their hands by the Divine energies reigning on Earth, the energies of light and love.
But residual fear lives in each of you. This fear is passed on to you genetically, this fear is passed on to you by upbringing. Your parents raised you the way they were raised by their parents, and those by their parents, and so on, this chain began in times immemorial for you. And you are the ones who have the task of breaking this chain. You are the ones who have the difficult but honorable role of pioneers who are able to break out of the old framework, take new paths and become who they really are, and not who the old society with old laws wants them to be.
Each of you is great, beautiful, unique. Each of you can and should become like this not only in the Spirit, but also in your human incarnation.
You can stop depending on those who told you that you shouldn't be yourself. You can get away from their opinions, words, suggestions. You may stop considering these opinions as authoritative and important to you. You can come to accept yourself as you are, and most importantly, to realize the fact that being who you are is good and right. Take this step - this will be the beginning of your return to yourself, the beginning of victory over the fear of being yourself.
Dear ones, many of you are afraid to recognize your own uniqueness. It seems to many of you that it is more convenient and safer to “be like everyone else” - one of many identical people who have merged with the crowd, and not the only one, inimitable and unique. It's the same fear of becoming too noticeable, because being noticeable in the old days meant being vulnerable.
But this is an illusion - that you can be “like everyone else.” There are no “like everyone else” among you. Everyone is unique. By giving up your uniqueness, you are giving up on yourself.
You are depriving yourself of the opportunity to realize your uniqueness and originality - the uniqueness and originality of the Spirit - in the earthly world. In this way you deprive yourself of the meaning of earthly existence. After all, you came to Earth precisely for this - to realize here the uniqueness and uniqueness of your Spirit!
Return to awareness and recognition of your uniqueness, dear ones. Return to yourself - and you will find everything that seemed lost and unattainable, that you lack in your life: a sense of meaning, fulfillment, happiness and joy of being.
Do what you love - this is the highest self-realization
Dear ones, when you accept your uniqueness and originality, when you stop being afraid to be as you are, your Spirit will begin to actively push you towards self-realization.
Self-realization of the Spirit is the main thing for which you came to Earth, and if you do not do this, then you suffer and lose the meaning of life. By being afraid to be yourself, you place obstacles on the path of self-realization of the Spirit.
Spirit wants you to be fearless. Spirit wants you to help it manifest in everything you do. The spirit itself will tell you the path to self-realization if you remove the obstacle in the form of fear in its path. I'll give you just one hint: Spirit wants you to do what you love.
Doing what you love is the highest self-realization.
The Spirit will never force you to do anything you don't like. Know: any activities that you force yourself to do or someone else forces you to do - those activities that you do not like - they are not from the Spirit. And everything that is not from the Spirit will not make you happy.
You all want to be happy—every single one of you. But why do you then continue to do what you don’t love? In this way, you contradict yourself: you go in the opposite direction from your intended goal. For where there is no love, there is no and cannot be happiness.
Follow the path of love - do what you love and don’t do what you don’t love! And you will come to self-realization, to the satisfaction of the highest needs of the Spirit, and therefore to happiness.
Any creative activity is an ideal way of safe self-realization.
Dear ones, I understand perfectly well that for many of you it is still unrealistic to freely realize yourself as you are, without hiding from anyone. You live in a society that is changing, but is still far from enlightened. There are only a few people like you, beacons of light, masters of energy. Yes, even if you remain in the minority, you are capable of a lot, you change this world, you have a beneficial influence on the entire society, pushing it towards good changes. And yet, when surrounded by people, you may not always feel safe - and you may not always be able to open up.
Dear Ones, Spirit knows very well what the conditions of your life on Earth are. The Spirit understands that direct and open self-realization is not always possible for you, and is not always safe. It is not always appropriate to show your true feelings... But why do you think such a beautiful thing as art exists? Why are there different types of creative activities? Yes, they exist for the self-realization of the Spirit - and it is creative activity that you can turn for yourself into a way of safe self-realization.
Even if you don’t have great talents (or you just think you don’t), you can allow yourself to draw, paint on canvas, write down your thoughts, sing or dance...
Dear ones, creativity is self-sufficient - it is not at all necessary to show its fruits to someone. If you don’t want or are afraid to show them to other people, dedicate your creativity to God.
Perhaps the moment will come for safe public self-realization - you will definitely feel it. But even if such a moment does not come, your creativity will not be in vain. You will make a significant contribution to the development of the Spirit, and therefore to the development and enlightenment of all humanity.
Exercise 1. Start living the truth that it is good and right to be as you are.
Remember those situations, starting from childhood, when you were taught that you cannot be the way you are. How were you called, or perhaps forced, to be something different? With the help of what specific words, actions, deeds was this done?
Think about all the situations you can remember, and some of them will probably be painful. Maybe it was in childhood, and you were scolded for some natural manifestations - laughter or tears? Maybe they compared you with other children and convinced you that you were somehow worse than them? Maybe you were forbidden to do what you liked?
How did you feel then? Pain, resentment, anger? Don't be afraid to open up to these feelings again. Don't be afraid to experience them, because as long as you hide these feelings from yourself, they block your ability to be yourself. When you honestly admit to yourself that you have these feelings, they will flare up in your soul again, but will pass very quickly. Awareness is liberation.
Then remember that your parents or other adults behaved this way not because they wanted to harm you, and not because you were actually bad. They behaved this way out of fear . This fear was instilled in them as children, just as they tried to instill it in you. They were afraid that if you became somehow “different” from everyone else, you might suffer because of it. This fear has been passed down from generation to generation for centuries, so it's not your parents' fault.
Now you are an adult and can realize: your parents were wrong, you were not bad, you were not “something different.” You were yourself - the way nature made you, the way you were born, the way God intended you to be. All children are born this way, and they remain this way until someone begins to inspire them that “you can’t be like that.”
You can change this setting now. Realizing that your parents were wrong in instilling in you that you are not good the way you are, then forgiving your parents, realizing that they are not to blame, then mentally “rewriting” those situations where you were instilled with fear of being yourself.
You have already thrown out the feelings of resentment, pain, anger that were driven inside, and therefore you can again imagine those situations - this time calmly, looking at them as if from the outside. Imagine that you experience these situations as an adult, from the perspective of today. Imagine that, for example, they are telling you that you cannot be like you, and you say to this: “I am what I should be. I behave the way I should behave."
Mentally “rewrite” all the situations that you can remember. Return to this work again and again if new situations emerge in your memory where you were not allowed to be yourself.
Continue to affirm to yourself and out loud as often as possible that you are exactly who you should be. Gradually, the fear will begin to go away, you will have more self-confidence, you will feel freer and more cheerful, it will become easier and easier for you to remain yourself in any situation.
Exercise 2: Find something you love and do it
Take a pen and paper and spend as much time as you need to list the activities you enjoy. Write down everything from which you get true pleasure - everything that, as it seems to you, pleases your soul and nourishes your Spirit.
It can be anything - activities related to your profession, activities related to home, household, home improvement, what you like to do on vacation, your hobbies, hobbies. Don’t even forget about what you may be accustomed to considering as small things: perhaps you like jogging in the morning, or walking in the park with a camera, or you enjoy listening to music, playing with pets, contemplating beautiful landscapes, etc. .
Try to make your list as long as possible. Then ask yourself: how can you start doing at least one thing on this list every day? Allow yourself at least one or two classes from it? And if you are not doing this until now, then why?
Keep in mind: hidden in each item on your list is the key to your self-realization. Each of the points can lead you to happiness only if you really do it.
Now make another list: activities that you don’t like but are forced to do. Re-read it. Realize that each item on this list takes you away from self-realization, and therefore makes you unhappy. Your task: either stop doing this, or start doing it somehow differently - so that it starts to give you pleasure.
Remember: working at a job you don’t like is a harmful occupation. Even if such work brings money, sooner or later it will lead to misfortunes and illnesses not only for you, but also for your family. That is, such sacrifices “for the sake of the family” are unjustified - they will not make anyone better. Find what you love and think about how to turn it into a profession. When the Spirit helps you, there will be no obstacles, and even age will not become a hindrance.
But there are, perhaps, some activities that you cannot refuse, although you do not like them. For example, you don’t like to cook or wash the floor, but you can’t not do it. And yet, even here you can find options if you wish.
For example.
- Start earning enough money through your favorite business to eat at a restaurant and hire workers to do the cleaning.
- Rethink and reformulate the task: you do not have to wash the floor, but to free your home, and therefore your life, from dirt, to clean up. Perhaps this challenge will inspire you more.
- Redistribute household responsibilities among everyone in your household so that everyone does what they like best.
- Introduce an element of play into your everyday activities, do them differently each time: for example, today you imagine that you are not washing the floor, but scrubbing the deck of an ocean liner, next week you imagine an ancient castle where you will live, and imagine what you are doing cleaning there, while looking for hidden treasures. A game is something that kills routine, brings variety to life and allows you to find something exciting and new in familiar and even boring things.
Exercise 3. Awareness and recognition of your own uniqueness
Stay alone with yourself, close your eyes and say to yourself: “ I am the Divine Spirit, who of my own free will undertook this journey to Earth. I came here to realize my uniqueness and uniqueness. Now I ask God to help me realize my unique and unrepeatable characteristics. I intend to accept, understand, love and realize them in this incarnation .”
Listen to yourself, to your feelings. Allow yourself to feel: what is your personality? What are you really like? How do you think God sees you? He looks with the most loving eyes and sees the best in you. What is it and what is the best thing about you? What feelings, thoughts, intentions, desires, motivations can you call the best, the real, exactly yours? What actions of yours best reflect the real you? Which character traits are your natural characteristics and not distortions introduced by society and the events of your life? What talents and abilities are given to you by nature? What else do you see in yourself that is good, meaningful, important, and requires implementation?
Ponder this as much as you want. Try to feel your own unique vibration - it's like a note or even a whole melody that sounds in your soul. This is the “song” your Spirit sings.
Then open your eyes, go to the mirror and, looking at your reflection, say out loud:
“ I am Me. I am who I am. I am what I should be. I am unique and inimitable. I have many qualities, opportunities and abilities that other people do not have. I discover my unique sound within myself, that note that is unique to me. From now on, I allow this note to sound free, open and joyful. I accept my uniqueness. I realize my uniqueness. I become myself, natural and free in all manifestations. I am Me, and there is no one like me on Earth .”
Repeat this exercise as often as you like.
Exercise 4. Find your own creative outlets
Set a goal every morning or every evening (or any other time when no one will disturb you) to do one or more of the following activities (choose to your liking).
- Draw with pencils, crayons, felt-tip pens or paints any pictures or simply abstract figures - whatever you want or whatever comes out of your hand.
- Write down your thoughts, everything that comes to mind, or record your feelings on paper, describe your state and mood.
- Learn and sing a song.
- If you know how, play a musical instrument.
- Learn and recite poems by heart.
- Dance.
- Write a short story, parable or poem.
Dear ones, you are so magnificent that the whole Universe is proud of you and declares its love for you. It's your time to blossom. It's your time to open up and show yourself to the world.
Do not be afraid! You are protected. You are safe.
The spirit of each of you is now rejoicing in anticipation of the many wonderful things and great discoveries that you have to make. We want you to join in this rejoicing. Create, open up, strive for maximum self-realization, this will bring you the purest and most sincere happiness.
You are immensely loved, dear ones, - so it was, is and always will be. Krayon
(Translation of an excerpt from a book “A big book of messages from the Universe for finding Happiness, Love and Prosperity”, Schmidt Tamara)
With Love, Liberty
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