Moving Beyond Control Patterns | Matt Kahn

(Golden Age of Gaia)

(via email)

While you may have sought safety in having some degree of control in the new spiritual paradigm, you are able to find a deeper well-spring of freedom through a willingness to choose.

To control is to make sure life moves one way over another. When you seek to control the goodness of life, it is often from a deeper desire to ensure worse things don’t occur.

Outside of beliefs in control, there are merely choices to be made. These are not choices that guarantee one outcome over another, but options that allow the climate of your experience to be as harmonious as possible—no matter the circumstances coming and going through your life.

While it may be your heart’s desire to attain control over your thoughts, feelings, experiences and even the way others behave, control is inevitably seen as an illusory tactic of fear; unaware of the fact that the perspectives shaping your experiences are less defined by what occurs, but in how flexible, adaptable, and resilient you allow yourself to be.

In order to have the most fulfilling experiences of gain or loss without needing to control the things you will gain or lose, a willingness to be flexible, adaptable, resilient, and even cooperative occurs by focusing on the choices you make, versus the things you believe you need to control.

Such a shift moves you out of endless spirals of ‘what if’, so you may build a more meaningful relationship with the truth of what is.

While your deepest pains may insist a better experience can only occur once some degree of control is found, it is the deeper wisdom within you that knows a journey of truth is more so rooted in the choices you make to embody your highest ethical values—whether in preferable circumstances, times or struggle, or moments of uncertainty.

Once a decision is made to allow the vibration of unconditional love to determine your choices, you are able to move beyond patterns of control and open up to the higher experiences of grace that no form of control will ever find.

Without trying to control yourself or anything else, what choice is the vibration of love inviting you to make, whether as a means of moving forward in life or to better support yourself through the changes already in motion?

To further assist you in moving beyond control patterns and making more room for love within you, please enjoy this brand new video that was channeled with you in mind. And, please be sure to reserve your seats for my upcoming tour as we reunite in-person to be Healed By Love—together as One.

I look forward to being with you soon.

All for Love,