Mind your Own Business | Ivo of Vega via Sharon Stewart

June 1, 2021

Until You Deal With Your Shadow, It'll Keep Running Your Life

Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. : Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is. Adjust your attitude. Change how you see things. Look for the good in all situations. Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow. Let all the extra stress, worrying and overthinking go.

I need to review this one right now. My stress level has gone through the roof.

Ivo: I realize this, my love. But as you noticed you have made some changes.

Me: My neighbour came to the door Friday night. His kitten had an accident and it fractured its leg. So I call my vet and get the number of an all night vet in Ottawa and he calls his vet. His vet says he'll be in at 6 in the morning. He makes the decision: we'll go to the all night vet first and keep the appointment with his vet at 6 am. The all night vet gave the cat pain killers and x-rayed the leg and diagnosed it, said the cat needed surgery and pins put in, but we decided to let his vet deal with the fracture because he's a lot cheaper.

Ultimately the cat was splinted and it cost me eight hundred dollars. Could I just leave the cat in pain? No. Of course not. I'm not an ogre. Do I think I'm going to see any of that money back when the neighbours aren't working and live beyond their means at the best of times? No. I don't. I'm out 800 bucks. I have suggested to them that I will take it out in trade – he can help me with my packing and box organizing and work down the sum they owe me.

Which brings up a topic I have a lot of problem with: If you don't have the money to pay thousands of dollars for surgery on your pet or to buy pet health insurance, don't get a pet. Leave them to people who can afford to pay the outrageous fees charged by veterinarians. So many people want a pet, but when Murphy's Law rears its ugly head, they're over a barrel. Any time you own a car, a pet, have kids or own a house, or even if you breathe, you need a contingency fund even if that's a credit card, which is not the best case scenario, but you have to have money put aside for emergencies. You'd be surprised how few people do this. Wouldn't it be nice to have the money to pay for your bills when unexpected expenses crop up? You can just pay the money and save it back again.

Ivo, can we discuss how I dealt with it differently?

Ivo: For example, my dear, you kept calm the entire time. Despite his overwhelming anxiety, you stayed focused on your driving, you did not let the kitten's meowing upset you while driving, you kept focused on your job – getting you two to the all night clinic a hundred miles away.

Me: Wouldn't I have done that anyway?

Ivo: Yes, but you were aware this time that you were doing a good job instead of not giving yourself credit. You also realized that you were getting lost, and allowed his app to tell you which way to go. You are notorious for not knowing north from south, east from west, but thinking you know the way.

Me: I am. I'll even argue with others that I'm right.

Ivo: And you are not. Your sense of direction leaves much to be desired. So this time, you deferred to an app instead of insisting you were correct.

You were calm the whole time. You did not take on his pain, and you did not take on the cat's pain. For someone who is an empath, this is a definite accomplishment. So many of you complain of having stressful circumstances in your life, but you do not realize that when you are stressed, you manage to do the very things that you fail to accomplish in other times of your life, such as was the case here. Sharon held her own energy within herself, and did not allow his anxious upset energy to phase her. You do not realize that adversity makes you stronger, but it does. It is often a gift in disguise.

Me: Yes. How much would we accomplish in life if everything was easy? Probably not much.

Ivo: Which is my point. Indeed.

Now as for the channelings you have been challenged by various people who have contacted you for work done. You have altered the form on our website and changed your requirements in order to eliminate problems that have already occurred.

For one thing, you decided that we will not partake of “test” channelings. You decided we have nothing to prove, and we do not, our work stands on its own merits – you need only look around – and we are not open to doing testing. So you changed the minimum requirement of questions to three, thinking anyone can waste ten dollars on a test, but it is more difficult to part with thirty dollars for something so whimsical.

You have also blocked some people who we have channeled for, understanding that they may not be happy with their answer and are the type of people who will blame us and begin arguing with us over their channeling.

Me: Yes, had that already. Expecting more of it. I love the other people who are gracious and appreciative, which is the majority.

Ivo: You are eliminating the stress from your workload. You are protecting yourself from aggression and negative energies. Naively, you tend to believe that all people come from the heart. They do not. The reason people want a channeling is none of your business, and what people do about their channeling is also none of your business.

You are learning acceptance. Acceptance of others. You are all learning this.

Understand when something is your business and when it is not. You do not have to understand the way others think and behave, especially when they have so little interaction with you in the first place. Even this alone, would lower the stress level of everyone on the planet by a few points. Shake your head, walk on and stop trying to understand them. Trying to understand another person from your viewpoint is like comparing apples to oranges. They have a basic similarity – they are both fruit, but it ends there.

You also understand that for all the channeling we have done, if none of our advice is acted upon, that is not up to us.

Me: I know. Letting go is hard for me. I really want others to jump on what we've told them but if they do anything, that's up to them, not me.

Ivo: Correct. You are understanding and seeing in action the process of fight, flight and freeze, and seeing how it manifests within you.

You understand that “fight” is an angry reaction.

You understand that in this case “flight” would mean discontinuing the entire project, because you would in fact be running away from it.

You do not tend to freeze. That is not one of your typical behaviours. You are a fighter, in fact. Or you flee. But you do not freeze.

Me: If I was a freezer (LOL) how would I react then?

Ivo: You would stop doing the work, disconnect from it, fail to start it, any number of things. You would tell yourself you are still doing it but you would find excuses not to.

Me: Yeah, not me, really.

Ivo: So you understand how your sympathetic nervous system is encouraging you to behave and you are dealing with this by reducing your impulse to fight. You understand that by reducing the impulse to fight, the impulse to flee will be reduced as well. That would mean you are coping with it.

To cope with it requires self control. You must remind yourself that everything is none of your business. Doing the work is your business, nothing else. It is lovely when we get responses indicating that we are very accurate, but even that is really none of our business because we know I am accurate.

Me: LOL No modesty, Ivo.

Ivo: Modesty is for those who underestimate themselves. I do not. I am a fourteenth dimensional consciousness.

It is a question of understanding what your business is.

Me: I always try to figure people out.

Ivo: You have not figured yourself out yet, and that was the project you were given to do when you incarnated.

The fact is, you do not understand others by understanding others. You understand others by understanding yourself.

Me: Yes, so mind your own business. MYOB

Ivo: Your shadow self is still influenced by the Matrix. The Matrix is all about people nosing in other people's business. The Matrix has set up the mask program so that you self-police. This requires all people to be on the lookout for people not wearing masks. And then it is your right to tell that person to mask up. Now there is word that an innoculated person can spread elements of the innoculation to an unvaxxed person. Again, you are being told to mind other people's business and to influence their choices.

This is the way the Matrix works. The DS pits groups against other groups: Blacks against whites, Muslims against Christians. That way you keep minding each others' business. And you feel you have a right to because you may suffer consequences if you do not.

This is fear based programming.

You are all busy bodies who believe you have a right to tell others what to do, and that you have a right to know others' business.

You do not. The Matrix uses your unified minds against you.

Mind your own business. Do not question why others do what they do. Simply focus on becoming more understanding and gaining mastery of your self. Mind your own business. That is exactly what it means: Do not mind others' business, mind your own business. This is the only thing you can control, and with effort at times.

Me: Thank you Ivo.

Ivo: My love, you are doing well. You are lowering the fight response. This makes more room for love.

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