"How Can I Feel Gratitude When My Partner Is Angry?"
Unsil is asking a good question: “How can I feel gratitude when my partner is angry and using profane words?” She says, “I love myself.” Well, Unsil, if we create our own reality, if we create the people in our lives, then the question is, why did you draw that partner into your life and why are you allowing yourself to be in an environment where there's anger and frustration and the pain of receiving that energy? Why are you holding on to that situation?
As you change yourself, the exterior can change. You might find that as you love yourself, inner strength starts to develop, inner strength that can support the change. It might result in the change in your partner, because you can communicate with your partner in a different way. It might change the environment altogether. You might have a whole new way of living.
Again, it's not for us to tell you what to do, but if you can truly love yourself and love the other, love the partner just as they are, without trying to change them, So often when there's something in the partner that we don't like, we try and change that in them. But very often with awareness, with loving them and saying in a beautiful, respectful way without judgment: “I don't like that particular behavior,” just your awareness and saying you'd would rather not have that in your environment, sometimes that's enough for partners to change.
- Prageet
Going Quantum, Session 10
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