Sex and Love | Steve Beckow

By Steve Beckow, June 22, 2020

How has the experience of transformative love affected your sex life, Steve?

Well, good news and bad news.

The good news is I’ve never enjoyed sex more. The bad news is I can no longer tolerate one-night stands, sex with strangers, sex without love, etc., etc.

To make love to a person for whom I don’t feel love is no longer tolerable.

One of the predominant reasons for hankering after sex is that we’re hankering after orgasm, which is a moment of bliss.

So in essence we’re really hankering after bliss. If we can summon up bliss from our heart by simply breathing it in, that makes the sexual impulse less pressing.

That having been said, making love to a loved one has never been more satisfying. It releases true love and bliss, orgasm or not. It’s the most direct way of experiencing and sharing love that I’m aware of. (1)

Everything goes better with transformative love. (2) Everything is enhanced by it. Every good impulse is magnified by it.

Footnotes

(1) Short of working with the breath.

(2) I use the term “transformative love” to denote higher-dimensional (5th to 7th Dimension) love, which bears little resemblance in terms of magnitude to what passes for love on whatever dimension we’re vibrationally functioning on at the present time.

When we experience ordinary love, if another person gets angry at us, we drop our feeling of love. When we experience the energy or higher-dimensional love that the Company of Heaven is talking about, it proves far greater than any inner turmoil we feel. Hence I’ve called it transformative love because it transforms the circumstances of our experience rather than being altered by them.

Sanat Kumara used the term once in 2016:

“And so, for example, in your political shenanigans in the United States of America, you are seeing the use of placards and people declaring love. And yet their behaviour is not of love. It is not of love of the Mother and the Father and the One or the Son. And it is not of love of humanity and unified consciousness, anchored in the heart consciousness and transformative love. It is none of these things.” (“Transcript ~ Sanat Kumara on Heavenly Blessings: Choose Love and Action, August 2, 2016,” at http://goldenageofgaia.com/2016/08/16/transcript-sanat-kumara-heavenly-blessings-choose-love-action-august-2-2016/.)

Source: Golden Age of Gaia