DIGNITY RECOVERED
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Today I will tell you what you need to do in order to develop self-esteem.
Since it is based on such qualities as self-respect and lack of fear of “superiors ,” then first of all you should honestly and objectively answer the question of whether you possess such qualities.
It is quite possible that for some they are inherent in full, and for others partially, depending on the circumstances.
And this is quite understandable, since the three-dimensional world is multifaceted and many-sided, and few people manage to build their lives exclusively in black and white - too many “shades” and nuances are thrown at you by fate, testing the strength of your Spirit.
And to determine the degree of self-esteem you have, I offer you the following.
Try to remember the most significant episodes of your life, starting from an early age - what sank deep into your soul, and analyze the feelings that you experienced then from the height of your current understanding of yourself and the circumstances that caused these feelings.
What did you feel then: fear, humiliation, confusion?
Or maybe, on the contrary, you were proud that you didn’t experience such feelings at all?
Using these significant episodes of your life, try to trace how your character and your attitude changed as you grew older and went through new experiences.
Have you retained the first reactions of childhood and adolescence to similar situations, or have you gained self-confidence and developed a sense of self-esteem with age, getting rid of all types of fear?
And for some, it is quite possible that over the years, childhood courage and self-confidence, on the contrary, were lost and they were replaced by veneration and various fears.
The purpose of this task is to identify your natural qualities and understand how they changed as you grew up: they were lost or, on the contrary, they developed more and more.
And only after you answer these questions honestly, can you move on to the next step.
And it consists of energetically working out those qualities of yourself that prevent you from gaining a full sense of self-worth.
Use the practices and meditations that were given to you on this site.
Energetically dissolve your fears and other negative emotions inherent in you, mentally replay the unpleasant situations that you had to endure and in which you did not behave in the best way, replacing them with new ones.
In other words, try to build a new chain of those events in your life in which you were unable to prove yourself worthy.
But the main thing is to feel, literally live, these situations from a different perspective and experiencing other emotions, which are based on self-love, self-respect and self-esteem.
This work is not easy, but if you take the time to do it, remaining extremely honest with yourself, it will bear fruit and help you regain lost qualities or strengthen those that you already possess.
To be continued...
With Love, Liberty
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