How to Be Friendly?
July 16, 2018
By Steve Beckow
The Arcturians through Sue Life once said to me:
“You will be called upon to master EVERY thought and feeling. …
“Hence any thoughts or feelings that cause inner conflict of any form are best pulled into your conscious mind to be displayed as an experience. In fact, in 5D this will occur with your EVERY thought/emotion.
“Hence our leaders are having to totally hone this mastery of energy NOW.” (1)
“You must see yourself,” they said on another occasion. “You must be aware of what you are thinking, what you are saying, what you are doing and WHY. Why are you thinking that? Why are you saying that? Why are you doing that?” (2)
Given, as the Arcturians said, that all thoughts and feelings are displayed in Fifth Dimensionality and given the roles we’ll be playing, it makes sense to me to “hone this mastery of energy NOW,” as they say.
With that as contextual background, let me relate an incident that happened today, which I treated in exactly the manner the Arcturians prescribe.
As a follower of the path of awareness, I keep the one basic agreement to maintain awareness of myself.
I watch myself closely and make note of my patterns and habits.
I just saw one, the noticing of which caused a major shift in my attitude towards life and people.
Even though I had a below-awareness grasp of it – like we all know how to ride a bike or drive a car – I’d never seen the pattern as a whole before or where it fit into the scheme of things.
I have a friend who lives below me in this building. To make a long story short, I had borrowed something and was returning it.
I knocked on her door and held the elevator. She invited me in. That didn’t fit with my holding the elevator. I became irritated, gruff, and pushy.
“I’m holding the elevator,” I grumbled, with a tone that implied she was an idiot.
My voice was irritated, menacing. I crossed a line and heard it. I felt it in my throat. I knew it in my muscles.
That is the first time in my life I’ve watched myself get pushy. It took a real effort in me to drop it at that moment and make sure the other person was safe – from me.
I followed the thread that was then revealed. I saw that my basic orientation in life could be called “unfriendly.” If we were to divide the world into two groups, “friendly” and “unfriendly,” I’d fall into the “unfriendly” group.
I honestly don’t know what the world will look like if and when I were to become friendly.
But seeing the matter for the first time and keeping the Arcturians in mind, I’m more than curious to find out. I consider this a really good next move. A definite life-enhancer. A multitude of reasons for becoming friendly come to mind.
But, you know, after years of cultivating a gruff image, I no longer know the first thing about friendliness.
Footnotes
(1) Arcturians in a personal reading with Steve Beckow through Suzanne Lie, Nov. 8, 2013.
(2) “Message from the Arcturians: Walking The NOW,” channelled by Suzanne Lie. March 27, 2014, at http://suzanneliephd.blogspot.co.uk/.
Source: Golden Age of Gaia
July 16, 2018
By Steve Beckow
The Arcturians through Sue Life once said to me:
“You will be called upon to master EVERY thought and feeling. …
“Hence any thoughts or feelings that cause inner conflict of any form are best pulled into your conscious mind to be displayed as an experience. In fact, in 5D this will occur with your EVERY thought/emotion.
“Hence our leaders are having to totally hone this mastery of energy NOW.” (1)
“You must see yourself,” they said on another occasion. “You must be aware of what you are thinking, what you are saying, what you are doing and WHY. Why are you thinking that? Why are you saying that? Why are you doing that?” (2)
Given, as the Arcturians said, that all thoughts and feelings are displayed in Fifth Dimensionality and given the roles we’ll be playing, it makes sense to me to “hone this mastery of energy NOW,” as they say.
With that as contextual background, let me relate an incident that happened today, which I treated in exactly the manner the Arcturians prescribe.
As a follower of the path of awareness, I keep the one basic agreement to maintain awareness of myself.
I watch myself closely and make note of my patterns and habits.
I just saw one, the noticing of which caused a major shift in my attitude towards life and people.
Even though I had a below-awareness grasp of it – like we all know how to ride a bike or drive a car – I’d never seen the pattern as a whole before or where it fit into the scheme of things.
I have a friend who lives below me in this building. To make a long story short, I had borrowed something and was returning it.
I knocked on her door and held the elevator. She invited me in. That didn’t fit with my holding the elevator. I became irritated, gruff, and pushy.
“I’m holding the elevator,” I grumbled, with a tone that implied she was an idiot.
My voice was irritated, menacing. I crossed a line and heard it. I felt it in my throat. I knew it in my muscles.
That is the first time in my life I’ve watched myself get pushy. It took a real effort in me to drop it at that moment and make sure the other person was safe – from me.
I followed the thread that was then revealed. I saw that my basic orientation in life could be called “unfriendly.” If we were to divide the world into two groups, “friendly” and “unfriendly,” I’d fall into the “unfriendly” group.
I honestly don’t know what the world will look like if and when I were to become friendly.
But seeing the matter for the first time and keeping the Arcturians in mind, I’m more than curious to find out. I consider this a really good next move. A definite life-enhancer. A multitude of reasons for becoming friendly come to mind.
But, you know, after years of cultivating a gruff image, I no longer know the first thing about friendliness.
Footnotes
(1) Arcturians in a personal reading with Steve Beckow through Suzanne Lie, Nov. 8, 2013.
(2) “Message from the Arcturians: Walking The NOW,” channelled by Suzanne Lie. March 27, 2014, at http://suzanneliephd.blogspot.co.uk/.
Source: Golden Age of Gaia
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